If you’ve watched any series from the past decade that touch on the idea of what it’s like to be a working mother trying to do it all, just the title of Workin’ Moms might drive your eyes to the back of your head. TV is already filled with many mom figures: Women like Mad Men’s Joan Harris, Grey’s Anatomy’s Meredith Grey, and Friends’ Rachel Green reclaim their ambition after having a baby by climbing the corporate ladder and knocking back whiskey like one of the guys without missing a beat. In reality, working mothers in the trenches often feel the pressure to “parent like they don’t have a job and to work like they don’t have children.” But also feel pressure to balance personal time, female friendships, and a loving relationship with their partner without ever complaining about how hard it all actually is, about what weird things are happening to their bodies, or about the fact that all they really want to do is watch TV or take a nap.
Thankfully there’s a growing body of TV shows, movies, and standup specials pushing past one-dimensional portraits of parenting to dive into its realistic, darker side, especially when it comes to motherhood. Now, we also have the serialized Canadian comedy Workin’ Moms to add to that list. The show which is streaming on Netflix was Canada’s highest-rated new comedy when it debuted in 2017. In five seasons, Workin’ Moms explores themes of motherhood through the lens of a Mommy and Me group, and like a toddler temper tantrum, it can bounce from sunny to real to dark and back all within a 22-minute episode. At its core, the show presents an often scary, cringeworthy world in which women secretly pump breast milk in office bathroom stalls and disappoint their partners by pulling away emotionally or chasing a job promotion instead of racing home to oversee bedtime. And this is all under the gaze of a society that has opinions on what they say, do, and even eat. The workin’ moms of the show’s title aren’t always likable and they definitely aren’t selfless, but they keep going. It’s perhaps the most truthful journey any show about parenting can take.
By:Chanel Dawson